Handjobs are an irreplaceable part of a regular sexual routine. Yes, blowjobs can be given alternatively but sometimes guys just like their dicks to be yanked by their woman. Every act of pleasure has its charm and satisfaction levels. If you are having problems with giving handjobs to your man, you have nothing to worry about. I’m here to help you master the art of giving the perfect handjob. For some, giving handjobs may put them in an awkward position. This is a normal and common issue.
For instance, you are stroking his dick to give him pleasure, but at the same time, it may create an awkward moment of silence. This can be a mood killer. There is a solution to this awkward moment as well. You can turn this into an intense and steamy moment by leaning towards him and kissing him while you do your thing.
How to Achieve Perfection in Handjob?
Here are some tips using which you can achieve perfection.
1. Talk to One Another
The first step to achieving perfection is to talk to your partner. Communication is the only way to have a thrilling sexual experience with your lover. Let him make you understand its importance and how he wants it to be done. Moreover, since it is his dick, he will be able to tell you better the areas and moves which will make his mind blow with pleasure.
2. Grab and Rub
Dicks aren’t that delicate, so grab your man’s dick and give a gentle rub from the base towards his tip. However, your partner must be comfortable with the intensity of your grab. It will be an unpleasant moment if you grab it too tightly. While doing so, do it confidently as if you mean it. Guys always like some confidence.
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3. Stroking
Before I begin with this, it is worth mentioning that dicks can be placed into two categories—circumcised and uncircumcised. Circumcised dicks have no foreskin, hence the tip of such dicks requires more attention for arousal. Uncircumcised dicks are with foreskin making the tip more sensitive. So keep in mind to be gentle around the foreskin and not to pull the skin too far upwards while you gently stroke. For best results, ask your lover how he feels when you stroke his dick. If your man has a circumcised penis, then stroking near the area which meets the head of the penis will give him a quite stimulating feeling. However, you should gradually increase the speed of the stroking so that he can get the feel. Speeding up the stroking process will make the climax much faster.
4. Attention must be paid to other parts as well
During the stroking, it is equally important to tantalize him in other parts as well, giving his balls some attention. The balls of a guy are one of the most sensitive zones which, when touched the right way, will make him feel really good.
5. Deal with the Balls while giving a Handjob
You can either cup the balls together and tug it a bit with your other hand or else if you are comfortable enough then, you can take the balls in your mouth and suck a bit, or licking them will also work. You can also simply stroke the area between the balls which is highly sensitive. A point to be noted, do not squeeze the balls at all as they won’t feel good.
Handjob6. Notice Your Man
With all the stroking, licks, grabbing, and kissing you should keep in mind to notice how your guy is reacting to your performance. Is he breathing heavily, or is he not showing any signs of pleasure. This is important because then only you will get to know whether your handjob is affecting him or not.
Talking dirty while giving handjobs if possible, comes in handy. Talking as in get close to him and ask him gently while you stroke his dick if he likes whatever you are doing. If you can talk dirty while doing so, it will make the experience better for him. It can be said that if you can give your man a handjob smoothly then voila you will make him reach climax. As you can see, handjobs require some precision and intimacy as well. If you are a bit rusty in this case, there is no need to worry because if you keep doing it regularly, you will learn the right way eventually to please your guy. Set the mood and have fun.
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